Mar 4, 2011

Rough Road Ahead!

So, things have been a little rocky lately, so I apologize for my recent lack of visits, and in the future as well.  I normally do not talk about personal things here, but since this could be going on for many months, I felt the need to provide some insight.

My Step-Dad has been having a rough road the last year or so, and was recently diagnosed with Stage III lung cancer.  My folks do not have a local support network, and his son lives out of state.  So we are pretty much it.  My normal routine is to stop and visit on Monday and Friday nights, and I have recently included Wednesdays.

On top of that, I have my normal work activities and project management professional organization activities.  This is not a pity request post, just a shout out to let you know that why I am scarce and sporadic.

On a positive note, spring is around the corner, and summer follows.
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14 comments:

  1. Linda's WorldMar 4, 2011, 2:18:00 AM

    Sorry to hear about your step dad's illness. Sending good thoughts your way....you're a good step son to be so supportive. I'm sure your presence is a comfort to both your mom & step dad.
    Linda in cold & wet Washington

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  2. MartyMar 4, 2011, 2:26:00 AM

    So sorry to hear about your step dad. He's lucky to have you there for him.
    Best,
    Marty

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  3. Mistress MaddieMar 4, 2011, 4:01:00 AM

    We will still be hanging around! You just take care and my thoughts will be with you. All my best

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  4. JenMar 4, 2011, 5:03:00 AM

    Sending you guys lots of love!

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  5. mrs.missalaineusMar 4, 2011, 6:05:00 AM

    i'm glad you are close enough geographically to be there for your mom and your step-dad. our thoughts are with you-

    xxalainaxx

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  6. LYNMar 4, 2011, 6:43:00 AM

    I know how that is.. I did it for a couple of years for my father in law..it tends to take over your life but you won't regret it..thought about you actually when I was sitting on the beach yesterday just a little north of where you were on A1A last year... :-)

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  7. BobMar 4, 2011, 7:57:00 AM

    My mother had lung cancer, so I know first-hand what you're going through; you take the time to be there for your family. They're what matters most.
    We'll all still be here sending good thoughts.

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  8. Miss Ginger GrantMar 4, 2011, 8:17:00 AM

    Cancer is a bitch... hang tight- you are doing the right thing, even if it's tough on you for a while!

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  9. Kyle LeachMar 4, 2011, 9:30:00 AM

    Ken, take care of your step dad and yourself. In the face of his challenges and your commitment to him, we are irrelevant. Our thoughts are with you. Thanks for the personal update!

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  10. BonnieMar 4, 2011, 10:42:00 AM

    Thanks for sharing. I hope your stepdad has a full recovery. It is wonderful that you can be there for your folks. Keep breathing and take care of yourself.

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  11. AnonymousMar 4, 2011, 4:14:00 PM

    You are doing a wonderful thing for your Mom & Step-Dad. No, you are not the type to ever make pity posts. Sending all my good vibes your family's way.

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  12. Sage RavenwoodMar 4, 2011, 9:00:00 PM

    So sorry about your stepfather's diagnosis dear friend. I'm thinking of you and sending love and healing wishes up on the smoke. (Hugs)Indigo

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  13. TARYTERREMar 6, 2011, 1:47:00 AM

    I know what cancer does to a person. And I know what it's like to have no support system. You hang in there. Just your being there, is sure to make the difference during your step dad's daily fight with this. We'll be here. Take care.

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  14. Mind Of MineMar 6, 2011, 6:37:00 PM

    Very sorry to learn about your step-father. But I am glad that he has someone like you to support him. Sending positive thoughts your way.

    Keep on trucking.

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